Let’s set the context. Kalila’s mom is a contradiction in terms. She has homeschooled Kalila and her siblings, she is very conservative theologically (she wears a headcovering to church, which obviously indicates that she dresses conservatively), and is very careful about what the kids are exposed to (they used to edit every movie they watched to take anything close to a “negative” influence; Kalila had never seen ‘Saved By the Bell’ because her mother thought is was too negative). She is what you think of when you think of a christian mother. Very sweet, always encouraging, gentle, and positive. She has the perfect motherly tone of voice (like Cartman’s mom on Southpark) and is classy. YET, she is generally up-to-date with much of pop culture. She loves Coldplay, the Red Hot Chili Peppers, U2, Dave Matthews Band, Third Eye Blind, The Verve, Lenny Kravitz, Yellowcard, The Beatles, The White Stripes, The Goo Goo Dolls, Green Day, and many more that I don’t know about. She took my 18 year-old brother-in-law to see Dave Matthews and Coldplay.
With that in mind read her email to Kalila today:Last night was the Train concert. I was dead-center balcony with a good view, and they played all the great songs from all four albums. After the show, I wanted to get my CDs autographed so I was hanging around the stage with a small crowd. Someone came out and said the band wouldn’t be coming out, but a small backstage party was being held for people with backstage passes.Since there was alcohol no one under 21 was allowed, and they were carding . One girl with a backstage pass (How DO they get them???) was 16 and couldn’t get in, so I altruistically offered to get her pass and ticket autographed for her, if she gave me her pass. So there’s your mom, schmaltzing backstage, drinking beer with the band. The room was tiny, so they only let 15 people in! The only down side was that not all the band showed up! I got autographs from the lead guitarist (excellent) and keyboardist. Still, it was pretty cool! LOL, Mom
I have no idea how she did that, but my homeschooling, headcovered, conservative-minded mother-in-law is a groupie.